Well, you've explained a lot of things such that they make more sense to me now, for one thing!
For another, you're a decent gauge for whether I should say something or not - if saying it to you would probably make you angry, it's likely something that shouldn't be said; if it's something that would make me angry if someone else said it to you, it definitely shouldn't be.
...You also make this one certain expression a lot, and if I say something that gets that expression that's a sign that I should probably start apologizing.
oh that's actually a pretty good way to think of it though a lot of stupid shit makes me angry sometimes so it's probably not the most reliable method but it's definitely a good start!
yeah? like if you're trying to intimidate someone? or keep yourself from laughing at a really bad time? or like when you have to lie about something to spare someone's feelings?
Well, I can see where sparing one's feelings is a good thing, and I've started trying to do that! ["Started."] But I don't think lying to anyone is going to help anything.
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i can't read tone in text for shit
like you could be writing everything sarcastically and i wouldn't have any idea
but i do think it's good that you're working on it!
you do sometimes lose me in conversation
but i'm sure you're getting better with it!
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But you've been helping me a lot with working on that sort of thing, actually, in several ways.
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it would be pretty weird if you suddenly got sarcastic on me
oh? how?
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For another, you're a decent gauge for whether I should say something or not - if saying it to you would probably make you angry, it's likely something that shouldn't be said; if it's something that would make me angry if someone else said it to you, it definitely shouldn't be.
...You also make this one certain expression a lot, and if I say something that gets that expression that's a sign that I should probably start apologizing.
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though a lot of stupid shit makes me angry sometimes so it's probably not the most reliable method
but it's definitely a good start!
what expression are you talking about?
[The one he's wearing right now?]
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Trust me, you do it a lot.
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i don't think i'm consciously doing it
i mean i'm pretty sure i'd know if i was doing it on purpose
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[...Ishimaru, this actually explains a lot about you, doesn't it.]
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yeah?
like if you're trying to intimidate someone?
or keep yourself from laughing at a really bad time?
or like when you have to lie about something to spare someone's feelings?
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you never do any of that do you
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Am I supposed to?
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well uh
"supposed to" might not be the right term for it
but most people do?
especially if it's something to spare someone's feelings or something
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Well, I can see where sparing one's feelings is a good thing, and I've started trying to do that! ["Started."] But I don't think lying to anyone is going to help anything.
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well no maybe not
but what about omissions?
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so it's not flat-out lying
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[........]
I have gotten better at not agreeing with people when they say something and agreeing would probably be insulting, though.
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i was kind of worried about that
so i'm glad to hear you're getting better with it!
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Why were you worried about it?
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like really badly
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We fixed it, though.
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Do you know Kuzuryuu-kun?
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so what happened?
[...wait for it...]
wait
shsl gangster
fucking hell you said something bad to him!??
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